WOULD YOU LIKE A PERSONAL CHARACTERISTIC YOU THINK YOU ARE MISSING?

If so, how do you get it? You get it exactly the same way you get everything else. You work for it and earn its.

It does not matter what the characteristic is. Usually it is something you see in others and wish you had it. To get its, when you wake up in the morning just pick it up off the floor and be determined that you are going to use that characteristic all day long. Then do it. When you feel you are not doing it then think about it again and do it the next time the situation comes up in which you should be using it. And do it again. The more you do it the more the characteristic will become yours.

One day you will wake up and realize that the characteristic you are looking for is now a part of you.

How long will this take? Sometimes the few days, a week, a month, and sometimes several months. Does it really matter? The point is to be determined to do it. Do not hit yourself over the head when you seem not to have developed the characteristic. Just keep getting up in the morning determined to use the characteristic all that day. You will succeed!

Should you be disappointed when everyone does not notice your new personality? Of course not. Some people will notice but most people are so involved with themselves they will never notice your changes. So what? The changes are for you, not for them.

Do you want to get rid of a personal characteristic you do not like?
Do exactly the same thing.
When you get up in the morning decide you are not going to operate with the characteristic you do not like. Be determined you will not use its. Do exactly as you due to get a new characteristic to get rid of a disliked one.
Bob