"I just do not like giving my private information out.
YOU: "that makes sense but we do it all the time. You give your credit card to 17 year old kids behind a counter all the time and they even have access to your three digit security code on it. There are a multitude of forms in which you have to give your Social Security number. Sometimes you have to give your drivers license to someone and they have access to all the personal information on that. It is unfortunate but that is the way of the modern world.
Bob